Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus. How many times have you heard this before? Women and men are different. Find out the main differences between them.
- Communication
Women are better at communication than men. Men are more reserved than women. How to get a man open up emotionally? Is it so hard? Men really don’t like talking about their problems because they prefer relying on themselves. They are afraid of expressing their weaknesses. The woman believes that her partner doesn’t love her if he is reserved. You should guess how men can feel after being asked to talk. They don’t like talking so much.
You can’t force someone to talk about their problems. Nobody likes forcing. We all need understanding. We all need someone who will love us as we are. After all, love is acceptance and understanding, isn’t it?
If your boyfriend is reserved, accept it. Don’t try to change him. If you accept and support him, he will open up one day. True love will change people.
- Emotions
We all know women are more emotional than men. Men think more logically. The difference in the level of sensitivity between men and women can cause problems in a relationship. Men rarely understand how women feel. It is hard to understand why women get angry more easily than men. The woman believes that man heart her on purpose if he makes a logical decision. Women are drama queens. Can you imagine women’s life with no problem? It would be a boring life.
Nobody is perfect. We always make mistakes which can hurt someone. In most cases, we don’t do it on purpose. Be a better listener because everyone sometimes needs a listening ear. We should be flexible and change our behavior sometimes. We shouldn’t take criticism personally.
Don’t get angry when someone criticizes you. Think about it. Accept that you are imperfect and stop making the same mistakes. Don’t be stubborn.
- Memory
Men are more likely to associate the details of an event with an item or location while women can associate the emotions they felt with a particular memory. Women bring up past situations that made them angry whenever they have new problems with their partners. They remember almost every disagreement. It is difficult to deal with a resentful woman. Women have an exceptional memory.
You need to forget the past. You need to forgive someone’s mistakes and move on. If you can’t forgive someone, you should break up. There is no other solution.
- Pain
Women experience more pain and suffer from more painful ailments. They are also likely to feel pain more intensely than men. However, social gender roles also play a role in how people deal with their pain. If men are expected to be tough, they might complain less.
Women like complaining all the time. How to deal with chronic complainers?
According to mental health research, letting feelings “out” by talking about them with a trusted person strengthens you, both physically and emotionally. If you feel pain, talk about it, and you will feel much better. But don’t exaggerate. Nobody likes listening complaints every day. It sucks a lot of energy. People will avoid you if you become a chronic complainer.
Conclusion
You should stop being prejudiced. You will meet a guy who is more sensitive or more communicative than a woman. Meet someone first. Did you know every time you judge someone you reveal a part of yourself that needs healing?
Accept your flaws. Be more self-conscious. You are not perfect, so don’t expect perfectionism from other people either.
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